Florida Wedding License and Officiant
Info
Please note that the information below is a general
summary from various official and non-official sources.
It is based on my non-professional understanding and
is not offered as legal advice. I am not a lawyer
and I don't pretend to be a legal expert in any way,
shape or form. If you have questions or concerns about
the legal aspects of marrying in Florida, I strongly
urge you to consult a Florida legal expert and/or
the County Clerk's office for advice. When possible
I've provided links to sources.
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What are the legal requirements
for marrying in Florida?
You must have a valid Florida marriage license. A
marriage license in Florida is issued by a county
court judge or a clerk of the circuit court.
You can apply for the license at any Florida county
office that is convenient. It doesn't have to be issued
in the same county in which you will be married. The
two counties in which Walt Disney World is located
are Orange County and Osceola County.
Orange County has four
offices that issue marriage licenses.
In Orange County, the fee is $93.50 ($61 if
you attended a premarital preparation course).
You may pay for your license with cash, money
order, cashiers check, Visa, or MasterCard.
Checks are not accepted.
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Osceola County has one
office in Kissimmee that issues marriage
licenses. In Osceola County, the fee is $97.50
($65 if you attended a premarital preparation
course). You may pay for your license with
cash, money order, credit or debit
card. An additional convenience fee is added
to credit and debit card payments. Checks
are not accepted.
Applicants must be 18 years or older to marry
without parental consent. Both of you must appear
in person at the issuing office. You must bring
a valid ID (US drivers license, passport, military
ID or Florida Identification Card) AND a Social
Security number. (If you are a US resident and
do not have a Social Security number, you must
present an immigration, naturalization or alien
registration card. If you are a citizen of the
UK, see below for requirements.)
If either applicant was previously married, you will
have to supply the exact date the marriage ended.
There is no blood test required. No witnesses are
required. If you are NOT a Florida resident, there
is no waiting period. If you ARE a Florida resident,
there is a 3-day waiting period unless you attend
a premarital preparation course. If one is a Florida
resident and the other is not, the 3-day waiting period
still appplies.
All couples are required by law to read a Family
Law Handbook and sign a statement acknowledging that
they have read the handbook before applying for the
license. This can be done the same day as applying
for the license.
It really doesn't take that long to get the license
issued. There's seldom a wait of more than 15 minutes
and the whole process will typically take about an
hour. You'll need a car, limo or taxi to get you to
the courthouse, of course.
Once issued, the license must be solemnized within
60 days. The executed license must be returned within
10 days to the county in which it was issued for recording.
This is the officiant's responsibility.
Click
here for the Orange County Clerk of Courts' list
of frequently asked questions about Florida marriage
licenses.
Getting a License in Advance (by mail or by proxy)
There are some companies that offer a "Florida
marriage license by mail" service that will save
you the effort of going to the courthouse yourself.
These services are often costly (usually $100-$200
plus the regular license fee). They will physically
go to the courthouse on your behalf, get the paperwork
and send it to you. You fill it out and get it notarized
(for which you'll pay extra), then mail back the application
and the service then takes your paperwork back to
the courthouse, gets the license issued and mails
it to you.
There really isn't any reason to pay those big fees,
though. While the counties around Walt Disney World
will not let you get a license by mail, Brevard County
will. A Florida wedding license can be issued in any
county. The license fee in Brevard County is $93.50.
Click
here to get the forms. According to MouseWeddings.com
reader Christine P, "Brevard County will allow
you to get a license by mail only if you are out of
state or one of the applicants is military. If you
are in-state, they will deny your application."
Another option: if you have a friend in Florida who
is willing, they can go to a courthouse, get the forms
and send them to you. You complete the forms and send
them back to your friend. The friend takes the completed
forms back to the courthouse, gets the license and
sends it to you. Thanks to Nathan B for info.
UK Citizens
You will need to bring along the following documents:
Passport
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Birth certificate
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If you were previously married and
have been divorced, you must produce your Decree Absolute,
which must clearly state the date and place that the
decree is registered.
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If you were previously married and
have been widowed, you must produce the death certificate
of your late spouse.
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If you have changed your name by deed
poll, you must show legal proof that has been stamped
and signed by a solicitor. This also applies if a
married woman has reverted to her maiden name.
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If you are adopted, the adoption certificate
is required.
Also, you should consider getting an apostille
on the marriage certificate, to insure that it will
be accepted without question in the UK.
Who can perform weddings
in Florida?
Click
here to read the full text of the pertinent Florida
law. Here's a summary:
An ordained minister or other ordained clergy ("All
regularly ordained ministers of the gospel or elders
in communion with some church, or other ordained
clergy")
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A Florida judge, retired judge or Clerk of the
Circuit Court ("all judicial officers, including
retired judicial officers, clerks of the circuit
courts... of this state")
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A Florida notary public ("notaries public
of this state")
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Any member of the Quaker faith, in a traditional
Quaker ceremony ("all of the persons connected
with the Society of Friends, or Quakers, who perform
or have charge of the marriage ceremony according
to their rites and ceremonies")
I would like to have a friend
or relative officiate at my Florida wedding. Is that
possible?
If the person is an ordained member of the clergy,
the answer is yes. (With the possible exception of
"mail order ministers"
-- see below.)
If the person is a Florida judge, retired Florida
judge, or Florida Clerk of the Circuit Court, the
answer is yes.
If the person is a Florida notary public, the answer
is yes.
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If your friend or relative
is a Florida resident age 18 or older, it's
fairly easy to become a Florida notary public.
A Florida notary public can
perform Florida wedding ceremonies, including
ceremonies for people related to him or her by blood or marriage.
There is an online
course that costs $99 and takes a minimum
of 3 hours to complete.
The cost includes the state
filing fee, certificate, notary bond, self-inking
stamp, log book, and online access to the
Governor's Reference Manual and an Education
Course. For an additional $5.95, they can purchase
The Florida Notary Public's Guide to Performing
Marriage Ceremonies, which explains the
notary's responsibilities and also provides
a step-by-step guide to a variety of different
marriage ceremonies including traditional, contemporary,
beach ceremonies, exchange of rings, including
children and other ceremony options.
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What about "mail order
ministers"?
In theory, a friend or family member could become
a "mail order minister" through the Universal
Life Church (ULC), which offers instant, free
ordination online. Most "mail order ministers"
are ordained by the ULC and it is the most widely
recognized organization offering quick and easy ordination.
However, the validity of ULC ordinations and the
legal right of ULC-ordained persons to solemnize marriages
has not been tested in many states, including Florida.
In states that have case law regarding the status
of ULC ordination, the results are inconsistent. Utah
has ruled that a ULC Internet-based minister ordination
is valid, and Mississippi has ruled that a ULC-ordained
person is authorized to solemnize marriage. However,
based on past court decisions, ULC-ordained persons
are NOT authorized to solemnize marriage in Virginia,
North Carolina and New York. Click
here to see links to the various legal decisions.
It doesn't matter what state or country you're FROM
-- the law of the state in which the wedding is HELD
is the important issue. If you decide to use a ULC-ordained
person to solemnize your marriage in Florida, you're
taking your chances on whether the marriage will be
considered valid if it is ever challenged. Personally,
I wouldn't do it.
Can we write our own vows?
Yes. Florida only requires that the
couple's vows must reflect their intentions to make
a legally binding commitment to each other.
Beyond that, there is no rule about what the vows must
include. That's up to you and your officiant.
What about vow renewals and
gay commitment ceremonies?
If you want to have a vow renewal or commitment ceremony,
you have a ton of options because the ceremony is not
legally binding, so there are no legal requirements.
You can use anyone you like as your officiant.
If you go through Disney's Fairy Tale Weddings at Walt
Disney World for your ceremony and you do not hire one
of their recommended officiants, your officiant will
be considered a wedding guest and you'll have to pay
for that person to attend.